#152 Trade War with Canada, Planes Falling, Putin Supports Trump

0 (0s): Hello everybody. You are listening or watching chatting with Candace. I'm your host, Candice Horbacz. We have so much to catch up on. Today is Monday, February 3rd. If you have been on X at all or on my X specifically or Instagram, I'm being dragged. It's not fun. It's been very stressful. I had to take some time off the internet because apparently saying that small touch points throughout the day, little acts of love and kindness, making sure that your woman feels heard automatically means I don't care about men or their needs, or women are allowed to do anything that they want and just be tyrants. 0 (42s): Like none of that is obviously true, but people heard what they heard and we'll see. I mean, it's a wave and I'm trying to ride it and not drown. And then also just a reminder on the internet that most people don't take the time to comment, let alone rage tweet. So it is a small minority of all of the views that it's getting, but it is a lot. So just a reminder that there's real people on the other end of this. And I'm all about debate or having honest conversations that you are curious about, but randomly attacking people and surmising them from decisions they made a decade ago is still really fascinating to me. 0 (1m 25s): So I asked for all of this. I'm not complaining. I'm just doing a cathartic vent onto a microphone into this void that maybe some of you're listening to. This is our solo week solo episode of the week where we will kind of catch up on things that are trending and some news topics. Before we hop into that, we are gonna do some shout outs. These are all people that have bought cups of coffee. If you wanna contribute to the podcast, you can go to chatting with candace.com. Click that little link that says, buy me a coffee. It all goes back into the show. As you can see, I've been doing most of my interviews in Austin, and that has been amazing. I just think conversation is so much better in person. So all of this goes right back into production and I greatly appreciate it. 0 (2m 9s): So thank you so much Risk. Richard Johnson, Norman Keith, and Norman. Norman. Norman for all the cups of coffee. Greatly appreciate you. Shout out to the Patreon members. You get early access to our episodes and really insight to future guests where you can ask them a question. We wanna start with what's up with planes. And I've been traveling and I just did a bunch of traveling with my littles, and I'm not gonna lie, I was a little bit nervous at takeoff and landing because you're like, is air traffic control properly staffed? Do they have the support that they need? Are they paying attention? It is a scary time to be traveling. There have been three plane accidents in five days. 0 (2m 52s): What is going on? First up, January 29th, 2025. A tragic mid-air collision occurred near Washington DC between a US Army, black Hawk helicopter, and an American Airlines jet. A total of 6 67 people lost their lives, including 60 passengers and four crew members and three soldiers. On the helicopter. Among the deceased was Captain Rebecca m Lobeck. Lobeck Lobo, a highly respected army aviation officer. I wish I knew how to pronounce this so I'm not butchering her name. Lobo, I'm just gonna say Lobo, who earned mul multiple awards and recognition for her service was remembered as a brilliant and was remembered as brilliant and fearless by friends and fellow. 0 (3m 37s): So soldiers. She served the army since 2019 and had more than 450 hours of flight time known for her meticulous approach. Lebo has reached recently been a part of a high profile event where she escorted fashion designer Ralph Lauren at the White House. The investigation into the crash suggests that a possible issue with the helicopter flying too high, which may have contributed to the collision, however no evidence has emerged indicating that diversity rules played a role despite some misinformation circulating online lab's. Friends and family remembered her as a dedicated officer and mentor and her tragic loss has deeply affected those who knew her. 0 (4m 20s): I remember everyone was saying immediately that it was a black trans pilot, which is just really annoying. And then it was really difficult to find her name or a photo of of her for I think a couple of days until that surfaced. And then I guess her Facebook has been pretty much wiped out. But everyone was using it as a reason saying that this was a DEI hire 'cause it was a woman and she was a lesbian. And it's also possible that they wiped her, her Facebook cleaned because they knew that that was gonna be the narrative and the talking point. And how annoying is that when you just lost a loved one? It seems to me that this wasn't a DEI issue, which is what I would think goes into the classic woke right argument, which is like everything is this one thing. 0 (5m 7s): You can blame everything on racism on the left and on the right. You can blame everything on DEI. Instead of looking at it everything a little bit with fresh eyes and a beginner's mindset, instead of just like immediately thinking you have all the answers to everything. I think that from what I've heard at least, is this was more of an air traffic control problem, not a pilot issue that they saw that air traffic control said, Hey, did you see that plane? And she was like, yeah. And goes up to get out of the way of another plane instead of just giving her clear instructions as to where to move, which is what you're supposed to do. Then on January 31st, 2025, a tragic crash occurred when a Lear Jet 55 medical transport plane went down shortly after takeoff from northeast Philadelphia Airport. 0 (5m 57s): The crash resulted in the death, the deaths of seven people, including a 6-year-old patient, her mother, and the flight crew. That is so sad. A plane operated by a private medical transport company was en route to transport a a patient to a nearby hospital. Preliminary reports indicate the aircraft experienced mechanical failure. Shortly after lifting off, despite efforts to regain control, the plane crashed bursting into flames. Upon impact, the medical crew and the child were being transported for urgent medical treatment and the crash has left. The families of the victim's devastated authorities have launched an investigation into the cause of the failure, which will focus on the aircraft's, mechanical, mechanical systems and flight data. 0 (6m 42s): Then on February 2nd, United Air, United Airlines Flight 1382 was evacuated before takeoff at George Bush enter Na Intercontinental Airport in Houston, Texas. Due to engine issues that caused a fire. The flight e Boeing 7 37 was preparing to depart when the crew detected an engine malfunction triggering a swift response as the aircraft was on the tarmac. The engine, the engine issue caused visible smoke in flames prompting the the decision to evacuate all 104 passengers and five crew members. Emergency slides were, were deployed and everyone was safely evacuated without injury. 0 (7m 23s): Firefighters quickly arrived to the scene and contained the flames preventing further damage to the aircraft. The airline has since confirmed that all passengers were safely removed and the incident was handled in accordance with safety protocols. The investigation is underway and to, to determine the exact cause of the engine failure, but it appears to have been a mechanical issue. United Airlines has assured passengers that they will be compensated for their inconvenience. I'd hope so. If you almost caught me on fire, I would hope it's more than not, we owe you a ticket. This is insane. Ice is going after Canadian men with small members. 0 (8m 6s): Oh boy, get those guys outta here. A Canadian man gets his penis stuck into the freezing ground while being detained, following a bar fight. During his struggle with security, his pants fell down fully exposing his privates. The man is lashing out about people making fun of his tiny weenie saying it was small because it was cold out. According to Fort McMurray today, I know I don't have no hog or nothing, but these folks making bid bids and about my tiny, I hope this is awful bleeped. 0 (8m 48s): You have to tr try having a, getting a frozen fuck solid on the ground and seeing how small that gets. Blake, he said, according to the outlet, gone are the days of a fell, can get his frozen solid to the ground without it going viral. The incident happened in Fort McMurray, Alberta, Canada. Oh, poor guy. I mean, some people are growers and some people are showers and some people are just fucked. You know what I mean? And that is the way of male anatomy and honestly, I never really experienced the latter two. 0 (9m 31s): I No, let's just cut that. I mean it's true. Let's, let's look at this poor guy. I mean, he looks, it looks like he'd, he'd be fine. You know, just from his pick. You wouldn't, you wouldn't have get, you would 1 (9m 54s): Eat it. That's all he, I didn't see anything. No idea, dude. I just just know an got his ass and beef with them, man, I don't know dude. Yeah, I fuck. He's gonna get frost bite Shit. Pick him up. Fuck. Spit on. Spit on. Oh my god. What the fuck? 0 (10m 36s): I mean it's all blurred out unfortunately. Where's the uncensored version? Dave? Come on. Holding out on me. I'm sure it's out there. Mexican president Claudia Sheen collaborates with President Trump. This is a tweet from President Trump. I just spoke with President Claudia Sheba of Mexico, I'm probably butchering that name too. It was a very friendly conversation wherein she agreed to immediately supply 10,000 Mexican soldiers on the border separating Mexico and the United States. These soldier soldiers will be specifically designated to stop the flow of fentanyl and illegal migrants into our country. 0 (11m 18s): We further agreed to immediately pause the anticipated tariffs for one month period during which we will have negotiations headed by Secretary of State, Marco Rubio, secretary of Treasury Scott be Scent and Secretary of Commerce, Howard Lutnick, the and high-level representatives of Mexico. I look forward to participating in those negotiations with President Shum Baum and as we attempt to achieve a deal between our two countries. Oh boy, I'd be really nervous if I was her right now. I think getting in the way of the cartel means she probably doesn't have a lot of time left, but it's good to be working with them, right? 0 (12m 1s): Instead of creating more problems. How refreshing President Putin says Europe's elites will soon stand at Donald Trump's feet and gently wag their tails. 2 (12m 38s): I 0 (12m 38s): Mentally like Biden more mentally. But Trump has different ideas about what is good, what is bad, including gender policy and some of the other issues they kind of don't like. 2 (12m 49s): But 0 (12m 49s): Assure you, Trump will have this character and will store order pretty quickly. I just love a Russian act. Russian, I love the Russian language. It just sounds very badass. But that's not what we're talking about. We're talking about how everyone is probably gonna turn this into a moment where everyone says, see Putin Supports Trump trump's a fascist and he's never gonna leave the White House, which is has nothing to do with anything. 0 (13m 31s): They just happen to agree that there are two genders. So if you think that you are also a fascist Canada imposes 25% tariffs on the United States. Oh no, why aren't these links working? Just copy and paste. What do I get from Canada? Maple syrup? They do make exceptional maple syrup. 3 (13m 58s): Tonight I am announcing Canada will be responding to the US trade action with 25% tariffs against $155 billion worth of American goods. This will include immediate tariffs on $30 billion worth of goods as of Tuesday, followed by further tariffs on $125 billion worth of American products in 21 days time to allow Canadian companies and supply chains to seek to find alternatives. So 0 (14m 39s): I don't know if this is true, but this is in the comments, which is that text, the Texas economy is bigger than Canada. So those numbers sound big to a regular person, but they are not Trump. If they Trump is not happy with Canada, if they wanna play games, let's play. I'm going to retaliate even further. Of course you are. 0 (16m 19s): I mean, I agree. You know what I mean? There's been so many years where we just let everyone do whatever they want. There's no consequences to anything and we've looked weak. So I have no issue with retaliation. How weird is this? Let's find out together. 5 (16m 36s): Yeah, what the thing with Baron Trump? Have you heard that crazy 6 (16m 39s): Thing? Oh, that's nuts too. That's wild. Find that one. That one's nuts too. That one's completely bizarre. 5 (16m 45s): There's a series of books from like, I think it's the late 18 hundreds or something. Yeah. About, yeah, it says 1900 here, but it's like a, A person named Baron Trump goes on these adventures, gets a like a guy from Manhattan to be his like guide. It's, it's very strange. And wow. Very similar to like what? 6 (17m 5s): See, you can find what the synopsis, like why, what connects it to Baron Trump. It seems real weird 5 (17m 10s): What was called the last President, 6 (17m 12s): The Last president. That's kind of crazy because if the shit hits the fan, the aliens land. He is the last president in nine in 1889 novel called Baron Trump's marvelous underground journey. It was written by Engel Saul Lockwood. He would go on to write another book called The Last President in 1900 Mis Mystery, which involves the Trump family, Nicola Tesla, time travel and dark forces. Wow. Dun dun. 0 (17m 41s): We'll see what happens. That would be really unfortunate if we have less present in our lifetime for any reason, obviously, but the aliens would probably be the best outcome. Hu Huskies, I would never get one again. But they, I love them. And what's probably legitimate about this, it sounds Italian at least to my dumb ears, but when they've u been using AI to decode or deconstruct the language of whales and we know that they all have different languages and dialects, so this is, it probably applies to dogs too. 0 (18m 29s): I would not be surprised. I can't wait to know exactly what all the animals are thinking specifically mine. And I'm sure you're curious about yours too, but I just think it's gonna be fascinating. I think we might have to revisit zoos and aquariums, probably pets. We'll see. I mean we're not gonna get rid of pets. They obviously enjoy it. Anyone who has a dog knows that. But there will be adjustments To wrap up before we Close out this episode, there is a lot of comments in the post that are basically saying that I am not holding women accountable or saying that women don't have to show up or that men don't have needs or that women don't behave badly and never said any of that. 0 (19m 15s): The prompt to my little monologue or the question was specifically around what female arousal and couldn't we all learn a little bit more about that? I mean, women know very little about female arousal. We have to learn. I had to learn YiIVEM spent so many hours watching content, reading books, going to seminars, going, having like, what do you call it? Immersive experiences one-on-one. It's a lot of work and this whole thing is very complicated. That's all I was saying is that it's very complicated. It's very easy for us to get distracted. There are a lot of stressful things that pile up over time that make it next to impossible for a woman to fully be aroused, let alone climax. 0 (19m 57s): I'm not saying that men don't have needs. I'm not saying that men or that women don't also co-create a lot of the problems because we do. It's just a little snippet of a one hour conversation. There was also a lot of questions around why I got out of the industry. I feel like we've done episodes on this. Someone was pointing out the Holly Randall episode I did probably four years ago now, three or four years ago. Some of that was edited. A lot of my critiques of the industry and specific companies was taken out because she's still active in the industry and I guess she didn't want to have a fully honest conversation because she maybe felt that she would get blow back from certain, from certain companies that she works for. 0 (20m 41s): I can't know why she cut certain things out. But that was an edited episode and that is one of the risks of when you go on other people's platforms is you don't know how the original content is going to be edited or doctored or manipulated in any sort of way. Happy to do another one. I don't want to get into it. The trap of living in the past or spending turning this podcast into something that it's not, which is like heavily porn centric because that is something that I did. It's something I no longer do and happy to educate people on it and share my trials, tribulations, any data that I've gathered over the ti over like my research over the years. But I don't wanna live there. 0 (21m 22s): So if people wanna know this out of curiosity, I'm happy to oblige, let me know what you want me to talk about in the next solo. They don't need to be these news episodes we could talk about, we can make them more topical as well. I would have a couple relationship experts coming on next week. We'll be recording in Texas. There'll be delayed. I'm gonna try to get one of them out around Valentine's Day so that everyone can have a good time. But I would say my goal of doing this podcast is my goal of going on other shows is to bridge the gap between men and women to make our relationships less divisive. And when you see people that are constantly blaming one sex for all of our problems, I would be very weary of that. 0 (22m 4s): I would really take that into consideration because the goal should be, the goal should be to recognize what a gift it is and how much we compliment each other, right? To see the best in each other. And then to also demand the best out of each other. And that is when we are working at our highest vibration and we're operating as our highest self. And when honestly both sexes win. So if everyone is blaming women for everything and saying like having this real nihilistic black pill to view of never get married because if you simply just go to the bars and pick up girls, then you don't have to deal with any of of women's shit. Sure, that might be true, but you also don't get the benefit of a devoted woman either. 0 (22m 46s): So nothing is with, nothing is for free. If everyone is saying, if one group is saying that men are the problem and they're toxic and they don't show up and they're Peter Pan or whatever and they're always blaming men, that's also not good either. So women have a lot of growing to do and men have a lot of growing to do. What I do know is when you see one out of four women on an SSRI and you see the number of men that are taking their own lives, something's clearly wrong, right? And it's, there's this dunking on women saying that they're all neurotic and on drugs. Okay, well a lot of men are also killing themselves. So what I see when I hear both of that, both of those facts, is that both people are hurting and they're, we need to come to a solution and follow the people that are doing that. 0 (23m 31s): I'm not perfect, I'm certainly flawed. I've made mistakes. I'm not claiming to be a a, an expert at all. It's just I've had a lot of experience but bump, right? And I've also been in several really long-term relationships. I have two beautiful kids and I just have my perspective that I'm trying to share. I'm not saying this is the one single path and it's actually the opposite. What I see a lot on these bigger channels and these bigger platforms is people telling you there's one way to live and that is it. There's one way to a happy relationship. And that's not, that's simply not the case. If that was the case, we would've figured that out. Divorce rates wouldn't be what they are. Broken homes wouldn't be what they are. 0 (24m 11s): People wouldn't be s wouldn't be single, not by choice, right? Like they, like there are people that are single by choice. And I know that sounds crazy, people say that it's not a real thing. Go out and talk to some of these people. There are some people that cannot find love that really wanna find love. And if there was again, one path, we would've figured it out and we would've taken it. People are very complex. Individuals vary by a large margin. You have to address the person in front of you and figure out how you best work together to create a healthy relationship. And that comes down to communication. That was the point of that clip is again, just how complicated women's arousal is. 0 (24m 54s): And I'm just trying to help you have a better sex life. That's it, right? And as someone who has struggled with a lot of those, and that's gonna sound crazy, but having sex on camera is very different than being intimate with someone in real life. The goal of any scene I've done is was not my arousal was not my pleasure, was not my clima climax. It was for a good scene. So being able to be drop into your body and be present is really hard for a lot of women. It was very hard for me and it still is on occasion. And I'm just trying to give you tools to help women that struggle like I do. And it has nothing to do with creating like, what were people calling it? 0 (25m 41s): Chore play. That's I'm, I don't want that. I don't want a puppy dog. I don't want someone that follows me around and thinks I can do no wrong. And just like when I say jump, they say how, how high that is a turnoff. I think most women would agree that's a turnoff. That's not what I'm advocating for at all. I'm just, I'm advocating for men to show up, listen and try to see where she's struggling and you can help her alleviate some of the mental load so that you guys can connect when you have time. It's not to say that men aren't busy. I know that you guys are so busy and you are tired, but she's tired too. So how can you look at this like a union to support each other, to have the best versions of yourself, to enjoy the best sex, to have the best connection and have the best relationship. 0 (26m 29s): That's all. Happy to dive deeper into the subject when we have some experts on. And again, I'm hoping to have an episode out Val, like Valentine's Day week and it's gonna be on Tantra. It's gonna be very fun, very useful. We'll have some practical tools for yourself and for you to play with someone else. And with that I guess let me know what you want me to talk about next. Let me know if you enjoyed the episode. Next week's episode is with Dr. Hart and we talk a lot about medical use for marijuana, which is very interesting 'cause I think we have gotten to a place where it is just recreational and we forgot about a lot of the healing mechanisms of cannabis and psychedelics in general. So that will be a really awesome episode. 0 (27m 11s): Hope you check it out. And before you go, please hit that five star review. Like and subscribe helps with the algorithm. We are, we have passed 30,000 subscribers on Apple, which is very exciting. And if we could do that on Spotify, that would be even better because we have the video integration there as well. And think that's all of my yapping for today. I will see you next week everyone. Bye.